A Good Policy for Men in Internet Dating

One of the most important things in Internet dating is being upfront and honest. If you want a prospective relationship to work out then you need to be honest form the beginning.

Also some advice for the men. If you want to make it work you need to respect the womens decisions about whether or not they want to see you again.

Time and time again I have heard stories about women feeling like they are being stalked by a guy they met online, had one date with and decided not see them again, then the guy hassled her with endless calls text messages and emails. This really not cool!

You want to be with someone who wants to be with YOU! If someone doesn't want to be with you then why on earth would you even consider pursuing it? If things are going to work then let it happen naturally.

The best attitude is one of being totally understanding of the other persons needs.

Something that works to get someone to feel comfortable and safe in providing their personal details is to let them know that if at any time they decide to end contact with you, then you will completely respect that. This mean you will not contact them again at all. No emails texts phone calls or messages through the Internet dating site.